Inner child healing isn’t about staying in the past or reliving pain.
It’s about restoring safety in the present so the parts of you that learned to survive no longer have to run your life.
The inner child represents the emotional and psychological imprint of our early years - the part of us that learned how to adapt, survive, connect or protect in response to our environment.
Our early experiences shape our beliefs, behaviours, emotional responses, relationships and sense of self in adulthood.
When childhood wounds remain unresolved, they can show up later in life as emotional blocks, self-sabotaging patterns, mental or physical health issues, relationship challenges, parenting struggles and money or self-worth issues.
Inner child healing is not about blame or endlessly revisiting the past.
It’s about understanding why certain patterns exist and gently clearing what no longer serves you.
Work with me directly 1:1, in person or online in my 8-week program Finally Free . I'll take you on a transformative journey of self-discovery, allowing you to reconnect with your authentic self & embrace all aspects of who you are. Through guided exercises, inner child work and therapeutic techniques, you'll uncover hidden layers of your psyche, heal past wounds, break free from negative patterns and learn how to cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance and self-love.
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I wrote this poem during my own healing journey, when I learned how to re-parent and bring safety to my inner child. This is the foundation of the work I now offer others.
Your Inner Child resides inside of you
regardless of age, sex, religion or race.
They are there, waiting for you to find them.
To reconnect; to see, hear and validate them,
They've been trying to reach you for so long.
Since the day they were forced to hide away.
They're the nattering voice inside your head,
the emotions you try so desperately hard to escape,
They're your unhealed pieces.
Every time you feel angered,
Your inner child is telling you they're hurting,
Whenever you feel saddened,
your inner child is begging you for comfort.
Find them, hold them tight and love them
like they've never been loved before.
Listen to them and reassure them.
Be the constant one they never had 💕💕💕
Written by Jaynie - Adjusted Thoughts
In our work together, you learn how to be the adult your inner child needed.
Parent wounds are not about blame.
They’re about understanding how unmet needs shaped your nervous system and how those patterns can be healed in the present.
The Mother wound refers to the emotional and psychological wounds that arise from unmet needs, neglect or unhealthy dynamics in the mother-child relationship.
These wounds can impact self-esteem, worthiness, emotional safety and the ability to form healthy relationships.
Feeling abandoned or rejected by the mother figure can leave a lasting imprint on the inner child, leading to adult issues of insecurity, fear of abandonment and difficulty trusting others.
When love, validation, or acceptance were inconsistent or absent, feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, low self-esteem and self-doubt may develop.
Lack of secure attachment can create instability in adult relationships and difficulty with emotional closeness.
A drive to be “good enough” in order to earn love, often leading to self-criticism, procrastination or fear of failure.
Over-prioritising others’ needs, struggling with boundaries and seeking validation externally.
The Father wound refers to emotional and psychological wounds arising from unmet needs, neglect, emotional absence, or unhealthy dynamics with the father figure.
These wounds often shape beliefs around safety, self-confidence, direction and authority.
Emotional unavailability can lead to feelings of inadequacy and difficulty forming secure attachments.
Absence of encouragement or recognition may result in low self-confidence and chronic self-doubt.
Lack of guidance can affect identity formation, direction and purpose.
Seeking external validation, achievement or coping mechanisms to fill emotional voids.
Struggles with asserting needs, people-pleasing or fear of conflict.
8 WEEK 1:1 HEALING CONTAINER
This is where inner child work, root-cause therapy and adult integration come together in a safe, contained space.
Working with me 1:1 - in person or online - you’ll be guided through a deep process of self-discovery and healing. Together, we uncover the root causes of emotional patterns, heal unresolved wounds and support you in reconnecting with your authentic self.
This work isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about creating the safety required for real, lasting change.